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  • Enmeshed Earthbound Spirits — What Are They & How Do They Affect us?

    Enmeshed Earthbound Spirits — What Are They & How Do They Affect us?

    In this article, I want to cover a topic that isn’t very well known, but it is something that I teach to healers in my Professional Intuitive Healing Program, and so I thought it would be interesting to talk about here on my blog, too.

    The topic in question, is the enmeshed earthbound spirit.

    What is an enmeshed earthbound spirit?

    You may have heard me talk about regular earthbound spirits on this blog (as opposed to enmeshed earthbound spirits, which is the topic of this blog article.)

    In order to compare and contrast enmeshed earthbound spirits and regular earthbound spirits, I first need to briefly cover the definition of a regular earthbound spirit.

    Regular earthbound spirits are the souls of the deceased who have not fully crossed over to the other side after death. Their mental or emotional body is still on the Earth plane. Ideally, that would not be the case. When someone dies, it is optimal for that soul to cross over 100%, rather than leave a part of their emotional/mental body here on Earth.

    For this reason, because these earthbound spirits are kind of stuck and often in pain, they do not have a lot of useful information for us, and so this is a spirit that we should not attempt to channel. And it fact, it’s better to actively keep this type of spirit away from us, because when they’re hanging around us they can give us unhelpful intuitive guidance, affect us emotionally in a negative way and even affect the way our home feels, if they’re hanging out in our space.

    Just a note that these regular earthbound spirits are not evil or horrible — they’re mostly a lot like you and me, but for whatever reason upon death they did not choose to cross over fully to the other side. And so they’re carrying around the energies of stuckness, fear and pain with them, and they need to let those energies go, in order to move on. These souls are in limbo.

    Regular earthbound spirits are attachments that sit on the outside of your auric field and they are pretty common, especially among cannabis users, reiki practitioners and unskilled psychic developers. (As an aside, I provide a prayer in my book the Empath’s Toolkit for clearing them from your energy field and home.)

    Now, in order to compare and contrast, I’m going to go into some information about enmeshed earthbound spirits.

    All About Enmeshed earthbound spirits

    An enmeshed spirit situation is a bit different from the regular earthbound spirit. Regular earthbound spirits (the type I discussed above), are attached to the outside of your auric field, whereas the enmeshed earthbound spirit is attached to the inside of your auric field, and it typically occupies a small portion of your life force energy.

    This sounds scary, but it’s not. It just means that a stuck spirit is with you, and trying to help you out in some way (this situation never occurs without our permission on some level.) I’ll give you an example of how this sort of arrangement might play out:

    Let’s say that you have a tendency to talk too much and share other peoples’ secrets. And as a result of your oversharing, you say too much to someone which causes that person to reconsider their relationship with you, in a way that has a negative impact on you.

    An earthbound spirit (often one that is already attached to the outside of your auric field) approaches you on the subconscious level and says to you “I can help you keep your mouth shut. I will repress your throat chakra energy so that you avoid situations like this in future.” And on some level, you agree to this.

    This can often happen when you’re asleep and dreaming (in the astrals.) Sometimes it can happen when you’ve used cannabis or some other drug. In the case of a child, it can happen during play, while the child is in the alpha state.

    This is just one example of what an earthbound spirit may propose to you. I’ve also seen earthbound spirits offer to repress an aspect of someone’s sexuality, and to help a person shut down emotionally to deal with emotional difficulties more easily.

    The effects of having an enmeshed earthbound spirit with you

    People who agree to this kind of situation (AKA having an enmeshed earthbound spirit with them) are not usually aware of what it actually entails. When they agree to it, they may not realise the drawbacks of such an energetic situation, and they may overestimate the benefits.

    It can also mean the spirit who is attached gets even more stuck as they find it hard to leave the person they’re enmeshed with.

    How to clear an enmeshed earthbound spirit situation

    Having an enmeshed earthbound spirit with you is not that common. I used to offer healing sessions to the general public and in my estimation, only about 2-3% of my clients were affected by an enmeshed earthbound spirit.

    These situations can end spontaneously when the client is ready, or they can end when a healer spots one and asks the client if they would like it to be cleared.

    Clearing an enmeshed earthbound spirit is a bit involved and needs to be done very carefully.

    In my Professional Intuitive Healing Program I teach healers how to achieve this.

    To release an enmeshed earthbound spirit from a person’s energy field, you need to go through a number of steps. Firstly, you need to be able to diagnose where an earthbound spirit is enmeshed with a client. Secondly, you need to bring in Divine being to help you with this type of healing. You need to cut a cord of attachment between the enmeshed spirit and the client. And you need to ask the Divine being to help the enmeshed spirit leave your client and cross over. Then you need to have a direct chat with the spirit and explain what is going to happen during the healing and that it’s OK to leave the client and cross over.

    This is the most complex type of healing that you can do, and it definitely does need to be done quite carefully in order for it to be effective.

    As I mentioned earlier in this article, it’s not that common to find that an enmeshed earthbound spirit is with your client, but releasing this kind of situation can make a difference to your client, when you spot it. And it can definitely make a difference to the spirit who is stuck with your client.

    If you’re a healer who would like to learn how to help clients with this type of situation, you might like to check out my Professional Intuitive Healing Program.

  • Do You Have One of these 4 Negative Energies Lurking in Your Home?

    Do You Have One of these 4 Negative Energies Lurking in Your Home?

    This is the second article in the series about space clearing (in case you missed the first one, it is here: Why I Love Space Clearing (Ghost Stories Included)

    In this second article, I’ll be talking about 4 very common categories of negative energy that I find all the time in peoples’ homes and more importantly, I’ll talk about how you can recognise if these types of negative energy are present in your home.

    In a later blog post, I’ll go into how to clear them (and protect against them in future!)

    But before we can clear anything from our space, we need to know WHAT we’re actually clearing, and we need to be able to diagnose energetic issues. That’s what this article is all about.

    So, let’s get started…

    A very common energy to show up in our spaces (and one I referred to in my last article) is the earthbound spirit – also sometimes referred to as a ghost.

    Earthbound Spirits aka Ghosts

    In my experience, the earthbound spirit is the single most likely type of negative energy to be present in our spaces. As a child, many of my paranormal experiences revolved around this type of spirit and as a little girl I found it terrifying.

    However, earthbound spirits are not actually as scary as they may seem – they are simply the souls of the dead who have not yet fully transitioned out of the Earth plane, leaving part of either their emotional body or their mental body behind on the earth plane.

    So, because they have not crossed over to the other side for some reason or other (almost always a negative one), they resonate with energies such as ‘stuckness,’ fearfulness, unhappiness, and pain.

    These spirits are commonly found in public places that have experienced a lot of sadness and pain, such as hospitals, funeral parlours, cemeteries and police stations. Some may even be drawn to places which serve alcohol, such as bars and clubs. And of course, they often get into our homes – and attach to our spaces.

    In some cases, the earthbound spirits who end up attached to our homes are there because at one time they used to occupy that space or visit it. Other earthbound spirits end up in a space because they just like one of the occupant’s energies.

    Are you wondering if you have a lost spirit attached to, or hanging around your home? Here are some signs that an earthbound spirit is present:

    • You often see things moving in the corner of your eye
    • Your children or pets are afraid of a particular spot or room in your house
    • Your children frequently have nightmares or night terrors
    • You often feel a cold draught against your skin or temperature changes in particular places that seem to have no earthly explanation
    • You just get a creepy sensation that you are not alone or you’re being watched (this is a big one that is almost always the sign of an earthbound spirit, in my experience.)

    Some Good Reasons to Clear Earthbound Spirits from our Homes

    Occasionally I speak to someone who knows there is a spirit in their home and has become so used to its presence (and maybe a little attached, too), that they do not want the spirit to move on.

    This is not a good approach to take to earthbound spirits. Here are 5 reasons why:

    1. Earthbound spirits, when they attach to us, can drain our energy slightly and contribute to a sense of spiritual and physical fatigue. One ghost is not a huge energy drain, but the more of them you have attached to you, the more draining it can become.

    2. They can also amplify our negative emotions when they attach to us. Let’s say that you have had a loss and you are grieving. If you have ghosts attached to your energy field, that sadness will be amplified slightly with each spirit that attaches to you. Simply because you will attract the spirits who resonate with what you’re going through and they’ll pile on with their sadness, too.

    3. In addition, these spirits can affect your intuitive accuracy. If you’re dowsing with a pendulum or doing some automatic writing but you haven’t specified who you are wanting to channel, you could end up channelling a ghost in the vicinity, who, unlike your Spirit Guides, won’t have much in the way of high-vibrational advice to give out.

    4. Earthbound spirits freak our kids out. Young children are energetically sensitive and it’s common for them to pick up on the presence of these spirits when they’re sleeping or falling asleep. Children who live in a home with lots of earthbound spirits attached to it will experience more nightmares, sleep disturbances and night terrors than kids who live in energetically clear spaces.

    5. And finally, a really good reason to let ghosts go is because these spirits do not enjoy being stuck here on earth plane. It’s a bit like being stuck at the airport waiting for your connecting flight that somehow never arrives, so you end up hanging out in the airport for years on end. And because you were a little bit scared of travelling anyway, you decide you’re just going to make the most of living permanently in the airport instead. I think we can all agree that this is not a fun situation for any soul to be in.

    Plus, not to mention that not all earthbound spirits are friendly ones. Sometimes we can have mischievous ghosts in our spaces who get a kick out of freaking us out. Enter…the poltergeist.

    The Poltergeist

    They are essentially spirits that have either been earthbound for a really long time, or a very powerful, dominant spirit which is able to draw energy from an occupant of the space (poltergeists are most likely to draw energy from pre-pubescent and pubescent girls, and people who are under a lot of stress.)

    As a result, they have the ability to make noise, create disturbances, interfere with electrical equipment and generally move physical matter. (Whereas a regular earthbound spirit will not do these things.)

    Is there a Poltergeist in your home?

    Here are some of the signs a poltergeist may be present in your space:

    • You have heard footsteps, banging or knocking and there is no earthly explanation for these noises
    • Doors open and close of their own accord (with no wind or draughts present)
    • Door knobs turning and doors shaking as if there is someone struggling to open a locked door (but there is no-one on the other side…)
    • Furniture moves on its own
    • Appliances switch on and off of their own accord
    • Channels change on the TV
    • Lights switch on and off by themselves
    • You have felt someone touching you but there is no-one there.
    • Things disappear and show up again later in totally obvious places (a friend of mine told me about a dress she had been looking for that had been missing for months, and one day it was laid out on her bed for her, beautifully pressed and on a hanger. She lived alone and kept a tidy house…she says there was no way she had put it there herself.)

    If you experience more than one of the signs above, it is quite possible that you have a poltergeist attached to your home.

    How to Deal with ‘Things That Go Bump In The Night’

    A very popular way to rid earthbound spirits and poltergeists from a space is by burning sage. In my experience, burning sage causes earthbound spirits to flee — they don’t like it at all. But saging doesn’t help them to cross over and it doesn’t stop them from coming back any time soon when the smell of sage wafts away. For this reason, I don’t usually bother with using sage — it’s OK if you have nothing else to use, but it’s definitely not the optimal way of clearing earthbound spirits. There is another way which involves helping these spirits to cross over to the light, and I’ll talk more about that in a later article.

    OK, so we’ve now covered the two main types of spirit that can hang out in our homes.

    Next, let’s have a look at another type of negative energy that can get into our spaces, which manifests similarly to an earthbound spirit or a poltergeist, but which is actually something completely different, on the energetic level.

    It is what I call a “residual haunting”.

    Residual Hauntings

    A residual haunting sounds quite scary but this is just a negative past event which has been energetically imprinted onto a place, usually a home or a piece of land.

    The negative emotions around the past event are encoded into the imprint, and there is almost always an element of trauma associated with them. They are essentially energy imprints created by individuals who experienced a terrible sense of suffering or a trauma at any given time, and they are most likely to be created by suicide attempts, accidents, murders, domestic violence, and sudden deaths.

    Here in the UK we have so many ghosts and if you go on a ghost tour or read a book about ghosts, you will often find an element of a ghost mindlessly doing something over and over, seemingly oblivious to the fact that they are repeating themselves. These are your residual hauntings.

    One famous residual haunting is the ghost of Anne Boleyn who was charged with adultery by her husband Henry VIII, and executed. She was beheaded at the Tower of London and over the years she has been repeatedly seen with and without her head at the site of her execution, Tower Green.

    Residual hauntings are often mistaken for earthbound spirits because they manifest as a spirit replaying a situation over and over again, like a record stuck on repeat – with visual and sound effects. But earthbound spirits are classed as ‘intelligent hauntings’, which means there is a real spirit involved. Whereas these residual hauntings are just energetic echoes – they are not actual spirits (even if they do look like one.)

    Do you have a residual haunting in your home?

    I regularly discover this type of energetic contamination when I clear out properties.

    Here are some signs your home is being affected by this sort of haunting:

    • You see a spirit apparition in your home and it’s always doing the same thing
    • You hear distressed voices and they always sound the same
    • You hear crying/moaning or other unpleasant noises in your home
    • You have had a vision in your mind of something bad happening when you’re at home, but you feel it is not something that has any relevance to your family or your home
    • You’re an empath who generally feels bogged down by something negative that you can’t put your finger on when you’re at home (this could, however, be something else – I’ll go into that in the next article.)
    • You know there is a history of trauma in your home. I.e. there has been domestic violence in the home, someone died there (especially when it was unexpected), someone was murdered or someone attempted suicide in your home.

    Residual hauntings are associated with very negative emotional energies so it is definitely a good idea to clear them from our spaces. And in a later article I’ll talk about how to do this.

    Now let’s look at another type of negative energy that is very commonly found in our spaces:

    This is also a form of energetic imprint caused by something happening inside the home — but this time it is a psychological energy, not an emotional one.

    Negative Thought Forms

    Negative thought forms are energies which are created by repeated negative thoughts and words (note that not all of the thoughts we think become thought forms – the energy of most thoughts actually disappears once they are spent. But if we (or another person) give our negative thoughts enough energy, and they are repeated over and over, they can take shape as a negative thought form.)

    They’re often created by people who complain and gossip, and by those with a lot of negative self-talk. Wherever there are negative people, you will generally find negative thought forms. Often, these thought forms are ‘left behind’ in a space by someone who created them while they were in that space. They can also be directed at a space by someone on the outside of it.

    Here’s an example of what this looks like in practice, when it comes to our homes and spaces:

    Let’s say for example that a few hundred years ago, a wealthy family (who exploit the local workers) build an opulent mansion in their town. A lot of the townspeople resent this family, and when they see the house and walk past it, they think uncharitable thoughts about the owners.

    Over time, some of these thought forms may attach to and accumulate in the building, polluting the fabric of the place. Thus the location becomes associated with the energies of exploitation, resentment and greed, and these energies may affect subsequent owners, as well as how visitors experience the place when they enter the building.

    How do you know if you have negative thought forms in your space?

    Well, they make the space feel sort of funky and a bit weird when they’re present – especially when they have no relevance to the here and now. When these thought forms were not created by you, they can also cause your space to feel like it’s not totally your own. I find that as an energetically sensitive person, they are most noticeable to me and most concentrated in thrift stores and charity shops because these places are full of peoples’ unwanted, often used items.

    This is why we sometimes feel funky energies when we enter a building for the first time – we are picking up on energies that have no relevance to the here and now but which subtly affect us nevertheless. Buildings absorb the energy of events, thoughts, and feelings – these become imprinted on the fabric of the building. And place empaths will tend to be most affected by the kind of negative thought forms which accumulate in land, buildings and objects.

    In addition, negative thought forms can contribute their underlying energies to our own negative thought patterns, in the same way that other people can aid and abet our own worst behaviours and thinking. I’m sure you’ve had the experience of being around someone who does a lot of negative thinking. If you spend enough time around such a person, you’ll find yourself taking on the same behaviours. Simply put, negative thought forms can be a subtle bad influence on our own thinking IF they match up to our own negative beliefs about ourselves, other people and the world. To use the example of the opulent home mentioned above, a person who is inclined to be cynical about other people may find themselves becoming influenced by the NTF’s in this space, and become even more prone to thinking the worst of others.

    I hope you found this article informative. Stay tuned for the next article which comes out in 2 days — in it, I will go into several more types of negative energy that can affect our spaces, before talking about how we can clear all of these!

    And if you don’t want to wait for the next article and you just want to get on with clearing your space, you may be interested in my Energy Clearing for Spaces Course, which teaches you how to diagnose and clear negative energies (and also to protect your space from them in future.)

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  • Psychic Self-Protection – What You Need to Know

    Psychic Self-Protection – What You Need to Know

    I’ve held off writing about spiritual self-protection for a long time, because I didn’t want to write about dark entities, demons or anything else that may come to mind when you read the words ‘self-protection’.

    The very fact that you might need to protect yourself in psychic development sounds bad, doesn’t it? But, this article isn’t designed to frighten, and there isn’t much to be scared of anyway, in my view. I wish I had known that several years ago, when I was exploring psychic development.

    Instead I used to be so fearful of the spirit world — worried about being startled or attacked by spirits and unsure of how protected I was when I was doing psychic work.

    Negative Spirits?

    Psychic self-protection, for me is mainly about protecting yourself from unwanted energies like random ghosts and earthbound spirits, so that you don’t waste any time on channeling them, and so that you don’t feel drained or affected negatively by them. But earthbound spirits are not necessarily dark or negative. So this article is not so much about protecting yourself from ‘the dark’. It’s more about protecting yourself from channeling disembodied spirits that probably don’t have a higher perspective than you, so that you can focus on channeling the entities that do – your higher self, Guardian Angels and Spirit Guides.

    The Dark Realm

    My experience of the psychic realm is so far removed from the idea of dark entities and demons. Over the course of several years, I read books by well-known authors on the topic of avoiding demons & ‘dark entities’, and I ended up scared stiff and paranoid — it did me no good at all.

    Over time, I have come to believe that certain ‘spiritual’ issues such as dark entities attacking us, are actually psychological gremlins (i.e. our own creations, borne of fear and anxiety, projected outwards and taking shape in our minds as a dark entity.)

    I also believe that what seem to be dark entities might instead be earthbound spirits who are appearing to be much more fearsome than they actually are.

    Earthbound spirits (when they attach to a person’s aura) drain energy slightly and echo our negative emotions, but they don’t put thoughts in our heads or victimize us in any way. They’re stuck and lost — not necessarily evil or twisted.

    The Importance of a High Vibration

    Having a high vibration is important, but it’s MAINLY important at the moment of tuning in to get psychic guidance — not so much when you’re just going about your business and not really having anything to do with spiritual guidance.

    How to Raise Your Vibration Temporarily

    One of the best ways to raise your vibration temporarily for tuning in psychically is to involve the Divine in your tuning in process. Involving the Divine means calling on God or an Archangel (such as Michael, Gabriel or Raphael). You could also call on an Ascended Master (like Jesus, Mother Mary, Krishna, St. Francis, Quan Yin or Buddha.) Preferably you would do this in conjunction with a breathing exercise.

    In my Intuitive Awakening Course, I teach students to involve the Divine in their ‘tuning in’ process.

    Positioning your awareness at the Divine level through an exercise like this, is one of the best ways I know of to ward off unwanted energies.

    The Second Best Protection Tool

    The second best tool for psychic self-protection that I know of: being more selective about whom you channel and releasing earthbound spirits.

    Don’t open yourself up to channel just any old spirit. Ideally, you want to be channeling ONLY your Spirit Guides, higher self, Guardian Angels (and other astral beings who are with you on your journey through life, at the choosing of your soul.)

    If you’re channeling a being and you’re not sure who it is, I’d recommend you stop, and find someone who can teach you how to channel the right sources of guidance — like your higher self and Spirit Guides. Otherwise, you may find that you’re channeling an earthbound spirit who has much less of a perspective on your life than you do.

    In my book The Empath’s Toolkit, I go into an exercise you can do to release and repel earthbound spirits, for good.

    Who Needs Psychic Protection the Most?

    Empaths need psychic protection from earthbound spirits the most because they already have very open and porous energy fields, even before they do psychic development. Psychic development work opens them up even further, so psychic protection is especially important for such people.

    An empath is a person who has the ability to explore what it is like to be another person, energetically speaking. Empaths are effectively putting themselves into other peoples’ shoes, and they can often come back into their own consciousness with unwanted astral ‘clutter’ from another person’s experience. Even if an empath is of a very high vibration, they may still be picking up unwanted energies. My book goes into that topic in a lot of detail and offers some solutions.

    What Doesn’t Work?

    Here are some tools for psychic protection I’ve tried that didn’t work:

    Smudging with Sage

    This clears your space by making earthbound spirits flee, but it doesn’t offer any permanent protection.

    Psychic Shields

    Psychic shields are like band-aids. There’s a place for them, and they can work, but they’re a temporary measure. Ideally, you’d want to have control over your own energy so that you don’t need a psychic shield. The best type of psychic protection in my view involves strengthening your energy field and personal boundaries, rather than using shields. I go into this more in my book the Empath’s Toolkit.

    Sea Salt

    Taking a bath with sea salt or epsom salt in it is good for clearing a hyperactive state, but it does nothing for stopping unwanted energies coming into your space.

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