Results of Intuitive Experiment #13

Who was the woman presented in intuitive experiment #13?

Helen Milner

She is Helen Elizabeth Milner, a New Zealand woman who was convicted of murdering her husband Philip Nesbit in 2013 and sentenced to life in prison.

According to prosecutors, she put a massive dose of an antihistamine drug in her husband’s dinner, and when he was sufficiently sedated, suffocated him. She then staged the scene as a suicide, leaving suicide notes and sending farewell text messages to his relatives.

Her motive was thought to be a $257,000 NZ life insurance payout which she wanted to claim to enable her to start a new life with her boyfriend.

She did not do a very good job of covering her tracks, however.

She was nicknamed the ‘Black Widow’ by her work colleagues as she had talked and joked about poisoning her husband prior to committing the crime.

Milner had also previously talked of killing her husband to her son, Adam Kearns, and his ex-partner, and offered them a share of the life insurance payout if they arranged a hitman. They later testified that they had thought she was not serious.

In addition, the victim’s sister, Lee-Ann Cartier became suspicious when she noticed the signature at the bottom of the suicide note was not in her brother’s handwriting. Nesbit’s son also became suspicious because the suicide notes were typed, and his father did not know how to use a computer.

Although investigators had botched their investigation and initially concluded that the death was a suicide, Lee-Ann Cartier turned amateur detective, even befriending Milner to gain information about the case. She raised her concerns with the coroner and over a period of a couple of years managed to gather enough evidence to persuade the police to re-open the investigation.


In addition to murder, Milner was earlier convicted of perverting the course of justice after setting her own son up and framing him for a crime he didn’t commit. She bought a mobile phone and pretending to be him, sent threatening messages to herself and to his ex-partner, which constituted a breach of his protection orders. She then encouraged his ex-partner to report it to the police.

Her son was jailed for two weeks and later received compensation from her to the tune of $55,000, saying that his mother was “dead to him”.

Background & Early Life

In a letter to the court, Milner’s mother described her daughter as being a difficult teenager who would deceive and steal from her classmates, family and relatives.

As a young woman, she trained at a secretarial college and went on to work as a typist, but was eventually fired for forging a letter to her employer.

Milner later went on to steal $29,000 from another employer while working as a bank teller, and was caught and fired. Her parents say they spent thousands of dollars trying to prevent the case from going to court.

In 2009, she was accused again of stealing thousands from her employer, and convicted.

She was also investigated for setting fire to her car and claiming the insurance money.

She had two sons from her first marriage, and had sole custody of them. Her ex-husband claims she managed to gain full custody by lying in the family court and had blocked him from seeing his children.

Milner met Philip Nesbit in 2001 through his flatmate, whom she had dated briefly. They married four years later.

She was described as manipulative, motivated by money, two-faced, and remorseless by her ex-husband, children and relatives.

Her own mother, Ann Milner, described her as “either mentally ill or evil”.

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  1. Walter

    Anna, I’m surprised. My response was one word: killer.
    Performed the Intuitive Awakening Course with you and use it frequently in my decisions. Live in Uruguay and no English, so sorry for the bad writing.

  2. Lera

    I picked up on murder and saw prison bars, but I didn’t trust my intuition because she doesn’t “look” like a murderer. I thought maybe someone she loved was in prison for murder. I was really surprised that my intuition was correct from the first. This was a big lesson for me in trusting my first impressions.Thank you.

  3. Fellforit

    Funnily enough I too only got one word loud and clear: “murderer.” I got the feeling of someone who is just cold-blooded and unfeeling about the whole thing – like she was thinking “what is all the fuss about, so what? I was in the right.” Also picked up on the accent but mistook it for Australian.

  4. Maria

    There was something conflicting in her. The feeling I got was a tightening at the bottom of my throat. When I focused on character I got “judgement” and the words “evaluate inhibition” which I took as a prompt to evaluate the “inhibition” in my throat = not able/daring to speak her truth.

    Then I went on to skills, which came easily and in an instant: she “trusts papers” – I guess (now) that this may refer to insurance policies and money.

    At the time I thought she was a (professional) judge or lawyer and very unhappy about/with her job.

    There I stopped because I did not feel comfortable.

    This was the first time that after trying a psychic experiment I felt the need to cut ties and cleanse afterwards. This feeling in my throat remained (and actually I have it again right now as I’m writing) – thank you for posting the link to your article.

    Thank you for all your information and exercises, they’ve been very helpful 🙂

  5. Melanie

    I picked up that I couldn’t trust her. I saw money and I tought she was a accountant. I also saw a prison cell but unfortunately I was disturbed and couldn’t see anything about a murder. Also I saw her name started with a H

  6. Anna

    I haven’t tried the other exercises before but this one I couldn’t resist. I’m not trained or had any Courses for this before so take it for what it is 🙂 When I looked at her photos I got very uncomfortable, she looked “normal” at first glance but there was some weird feeling lurking there that at least to me says that this person isn’t to be trusted, ever. Sneaky, deceiving and lying was what I felt so not too bad when I read who she was 🙂

  7. kathleen

    When I frist saw the photo my mind went to mad, killer, ill, and some problem with evil lurking.. I wasn’t sure till I scroll down and read the answer. O.O
    I feel sorry for the husband and childerns.. And also her parent..

  8. kathleen

    When I frist saw the photo my mind went to mad, killer, ill, and some problem with evil lurking.. I wasn’t sure till I scroll down and read the answer. O.O
    I feel sorry for the husband and childerns.. And also her parent..
    But I do wonder inside. What made her this way? Even though I tried to ask myself. All I got was just personal gain..

  9. karen

    I immediately knew she was bad. I has a clear thought of distrust when I looked at her picture and then felt “bad”. Should of spent more time on the experiment. Next time!

  10. Shyann

    I said she killed her husband, first thing I got.
    And I felt she was a bad person. I got alot right
    but not the little details I didn’t get anything.
    I just got her character, and what she did.

  11. Anna

    Walter – I noticed you got this one! Well done!

  12. Anna

    Lera – great! Glad this gave you a little extra boost to trust your impressions…

  13. anna

    Fellforit – Awesome! Well done.

  14. anna

    Maria – Maybe you were picking up on the energy of the courtroom in general when you sensed lawyer/judge. It would be interesting to see if you have that throat tightness come up again.

  15. Anna

    Melanie – a few good hits there, well done.

  16. Anna

    Anna – not bad for a first go! well done!

  17. Anna

    Karen, Kathleen and Shyann – good job, you guys!

  18. Annette

    I hadn’t left a comment on the original experiment site, but I immediately felt that this woman was a criminal and dangerous. I was somewhat shocked to learn that she murdered someone.

  19. Kimberley

    I got that she was an angry woman, filled with hatred and contempt about something very specific. Then I got “courtroom”.

  20. Kelly

    My initial reaction to her when I got the first glimpse of her was “Don’t Trust Her!”. I then got impressions of manipulative, embezzlement, feels wronged & no guilt in what she has done. Next I picked up on two children who she mistreated emotionally & physically & I got feeling that husband wasn’t around but no feeling on her murdering him. I only felt she had witnessed death but little reaction to it. I just came to this site & love the articles you write. I’m working on developing myself so I find the info very helpful! Thank you!

  21. Ally V.

    I am having such an interesting experience doing these intuitive experiments. So far out of all that you’ve posted I’ve had very strong intuitive hits on 11 of them. I was spot on with her. The minute I saw her I knew it was in a courtroom, and she had killed her husband. I also picked up on stolen money which confused me I totally because I had so strongly picked up on murder with her. I also saw two children. I didn’t get that much detailed information as far as amounts or anything like that but it seems like I got an immediate and very correct read on her. Thank so much for putting these up! I have experienced empathic abilities and some clairvoyance since I was child and have just begun really opening myself to that and thinking about what it means to me. My mother and grandmother both seem to have the gift but are very religious and deny it/push it away. This is the first I’ve really begun to understand what my gifts are.

    Blessed Be,

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