From 2016-2019, I was a full-time international house sitter, travelling from place to place, looking after peoples’ pets and homes while they were on holiday. I mostly house sat in the UK and in New Zealand.

Towards the end of 2019, things began to go really wrong. I had one bad house sit after another. I got attacked by a dog. I remember at one particular low point I was looking after an elderly cat with dementia (the dementia had not been disclosed to me!) that wandered and howled day and night with distress. I could not get any sleep. There was water collecting in the basement of the house and the fire alarms kept going off! I hardly slept for about ten days and I remember feeling very burnt out.

Prior to that episode, I knew it was time to stop house sitting since living an itinerant lifestyle was no longer good for me and my health, but I resisted the change.

I came to the conclusion that I was being hit over the head with a bunch of intolerable situations until I gave in and got onto the path that was right for me.

That seemed to be the case because shortly after that, I moved into a one bedroom house in Yorkshire, UK, that I absolutely loved and I had a happy time there.

Recently, I started experiencing something similar. Around January of this year, I started having serious plumbing issues at my house. Leaks, floods, burst pipes, destroyed walls and ceiling. A tap that wouldn’t turn off.

Altogether there were 4 plumbing issues, 3 of them serious. A neighbour also decided to replace his roof so I would be living next to a construction site. The situation became intolerable before I decided to leave.

Spirit told me that I would be living in my present property 20 months. I’m now 22 months in. I have the distinct impression I have overstayed and am living in someone else’s house! To go further, when I came back from Paraguay recently, I had the impression I was not only living in someone else’s house, but I was also living someone else’s life.

In my life, when bad stuff happens that is out of my control, that is just ridiculous — one thing after another after another — it’s been a sign that I need a change that I am resisting and I am being forced out of a situation that is no longer wanted. And my experience has been that the discordant energy dissipates when I make the change I’ve been resisting.

The fact is, we do come here with a distinct path to walk that is our highest path and purpose — or at the very least, one of the paths that are considered higher (and more suited to us) than other possible paths.

We come into this world with:

• A purpose or contribution to make, to some degree or other
• Soul contracts with other souls
• A set of soul gifts to express
• Life lessons to learn (not all of us have a strong learning component to our lifetime, but many of us do)

All of those will lend themselves well to certain paths and not others.

We certainly have free will to choose which path we will take, but life and our higher self will send us consistent feedback about the path we have chosen and whether it aligns well with our purpose, lessons, soul gifts and soul contracts.

Unfavourable circumstances that do not let up over time can often be a sign that the path we are walking is not right for us.

Let’s have a look at another sign we’re on the wrong path in life to some degree…

Low vitality and energy levels

What happens when we find ourselves living in a location that isn’t right for us?

In a job that is not an expression of our soul gifts, perhaps with a disrespectful employer or co-workers?

Or in a relationship with someone who isn’t right for us?

Or living a lifestyle that needs some serious changes? (Like when I needed to stop house sitting).

When any of those situations are occurring, the soul may restrict the amount of energy available to stop us from going down the wrong path.

People in the wrong situations for them can suffer from fatigue and low vitality.

However, that’s not to say that everyone with chronic fatigue is in the wrong relationship or location, and this is not going to be a factor in 100% of fatigue cases.

(In my Evolutionary Manifesting Course, I go into 19 causes of energy deficits which are affecting manifesting capacity and size of the auric field, and how to find out which one applies to you or a client, if your energy field is too small and energy levels are low. So, in my experience, this is just one possible factor.)

And it is a factor that does come up for my Evolutionary Manifesting reading clients sometimes — sometimes my clients are being drained because they are running a business and they need to pivot to something else. Or they’re in a job that they dislike (to give a couple of examples).

It doesn’t always mean a total overhaul of someone’s work or business is needed, but it can mean there is some tweaking that is required in order to fully express one’s gifts and purpose, when this applies.

This is something that I’ve experienced in my own life, especially when I was unwell in 2020-2022. I was involved in many situations that were not right for me and it was draining. It took me a lot of time to extricate myself from those and that has been a big part of recovering my health.

I have slowly, over time been constructing a new life for myself and as I get closer to my highest path, the energy flows better and is more available to me.

Again, this is not the only factor in me recovering my health, but it has been a big one among many.

Our souls do not want us going down the wrong paths for us, and part of that may involve restricting energy flow and supply when we’ve taken the wrong route.

It’s all part of the spiritual feedback system that is in place to guide us.

I am aware that these 2 signs of being on the wrong path may not apply to all people across the board, but I wanted to share my experiences in case this helps anyone.

If you’d like to learn more about how to increase vital life force energy for more effective and quicker conscious creation (and more energy flow in general), this is covered extensively in my Evolutionary Manifesting Course.